Tuesday 26 August 2014

15 Things You Face Being An Unmarried Woman In Your Twenties

The one thing Indian parents want from their kids (apart from scoring 98% throughout their lives, and always getting more marks than their neighbour’s kid) is to see them married.
It’s not easy being a single woman in India, especially when she’s career minded and past the age of 24. And if you fit this description, you’d agree:

1. You start your day with your parents nagging you about your marital status


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“25 saal ki ho gayi ho. Ab nahi toh kab karogi shaadi?”

2. Then, you go off to work only to see your friend telling you that she’s getting married

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You feel her happiness genuinely. You do.

3. You log onto facebook and your timeline is filled with pictures of engagements, weddings, god-bharais, new-borns, etc

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Time to log out now, I guess.

4. You get wedding and engagement invitations all the time

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And you’re obliged to go to a few of them.

5. Finding a good outfit for the wedding is a nightmare

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Shouldn’t be too dressy because I’m just a guest, and shouldn’t be too plain either. Ugh.

6. When you’re at the party, you find most of your old classmates/friends with their spouses

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You feel bad about your marital status for a second, but then you notice how all your friends’ lives have changed post marriage. And you’re not ready for that right now.

7. All of these classmates start asking you questions about your love life

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“Are you married?” “Do you have a boyfriend?” “Are your parents looking for someone?” STOP.

8. Your married friend’s mother, relatives try every possible way to set you up with someone

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Courtesy – all her other friends checking you out during the wedding, and her ‘contacts’.

9. Your parents are constantly surrounded by relatives asking why you aren’t married yet

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10. And they jump to ridiculous conclusions all by themselves

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“Chakkar chal raha hoga kahin.” “Lagta hai shaadi hoke divorce ho gaya hoga.”

11. Your parents keep pestering you to look at pictures, and even make your profiles on matrimonial sites

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Not to mention the heavy dose of emotional blackmail.

12. You have even lied about your wedding just to shut people up

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“Yes, I’m getting married in 2015.”

13. You are used to people telling you that you won’t be able to have kids when you get old

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Thanks. I had no idea that the sole purpose of life was popping out one kid after another.

14. But, despite all this going on, you’re glad that you chose to live life on your own terms

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Because that’s exactly what matters.

15. And when you’re ready,  you’ll tie the knot with someone you truly respect

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..and it will be romantic as hell
There’s a time for everything, and right now, the time is yours.

Saturday 23 August 2014

Facebook ‘like-farming’ a big scam, and how you may be helping it?

Images like these often crop up on your Facebook news feed.  It is an image that makes you sit up and take notice. The ‘story’ tugs at your heartstrings. You have to give your ‘respect’; and you end up ‘liking’ the picture.
baby-like-scam_fbTypically, the text associated with these images is something like this:
HE IS SUFFERING FROM
CANCER..!!!
Please Don’t Ignore!
FACEBOOK DONATE FOR:
LIKE : 1 $
COMMENT : 3 $
SHARE : 10 $
IGNORE : IF U DON’T CARE
The truth behind these images
In this case, the baby in the picture is (then) eight-month-old from southern China. He does not have cancer as claimed in the hoax message. In fact, he sustained the wounds when his mother attacked him with a pair of scissors after he bit her while breast-feeding. His picture was stolen from news articles about the case and republished in the hoax message.
And of course, the claims of Facebook donating money are just outrageous lies. Liking, sharing and commenting on the picture do nothing whatsoever to help the person in the picture. Facebook certainly does not have money to pay for inconsequential likes. And, the premise that liking or sharing somehow equates to prayers is beyond ridiculous.
Welcome to the underworld of Facebook ‘like farming’
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While these posts may seem harmless, in all probability, they’re being used for vile purposes. In its best form, this post might just be a stranger’s attempt to garner likes and derive ego boost from seeing the picture go viral. At worst, though, these posts are being used to mint money by self-serving ‘like-whores’.iphone_fb_likeFarming_scam
But how could they be making money out of this?
These ‘like farmers’ create several pages on facebook just with the intention of getting viral images to spread over the site.
“Typically, 10% of the people who like the images end up liking the page as well,” says Surendra (name changed). Surendra handles the facebook pages of several well-known Bollywood celebrities.
Once these pages accumulate likes in the order of hundred thousands, the branding from the original page is given a complete overhaul.
“We convert it to a product page to get people to buy them and earn commissions through referral. If not, we just sell the page in the black market for someone who uses it for similar purpose,” adds Surendra.
Facebook’s algorithm too helps with this, as typically it gives preference to the content of more popular pages and those that have more engagement. Hence, the more likes, shares and comments a page has, the likelihood of it being seen on the newsfeed increases. And in the black-hat forums that is exactly what determines the value of the page.
How does the average facebook user, who is educated, fall for the scam?
The answer lies in Behavioral Psychology. The common sense of the average user tells them that the image and the related text are not true. But, the average user also sees himself as an empathetic and kind individual. This is when ‘Cognitive Dissonance’ kicks in, the feeling of discomfort that we get when we are confronted with two competing ideas or theories.
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In the back of his mind, the person starts thinking ‘What if this is true? Well, it could not hurt anyone if I press the like button.’
So, in the end, it’s about what the person values more – commonsense logic or a feeling that he ‘did something nice’.
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Hold on. Sometimes it’s for worse things
When it’s not about the money, it most definitely is used to spread malware or for phishing. Gullible users may end up giving away their credit card numbers, passwords or other personal information. Remember the many iPhone and Samsung Galaxy giveaway pages that pop up right before every launch.
While the act of simply liking the page or the image might not be responsible for the spread of the virus or the phish, nefarious Facebook apps can do that, as can external links that page owners may choose to share with their followers.
So, what does one do about it?
Facebook uses automated and manual methods to swiftly remove links and pages that violate its policies. If you see a post that’s low quality and seems to be focused only on gaining traffic, hover over the top-right corner of the post and click the arrow to report it.
One needs to understand that the people who create these messages do not care an iota for any human being or animal depicted in it. Also, internalize, that the underlying motivation for most of these message, liking the image, does not equate to showing respect for the animal. Please refrain from liking these images and furthering the cause of these immoral ‘like-farmers’.

Thursday 14 August 2014

Becoming an Entrepreneur – Simple Steps

Becoming an entrepreneur is about the mindset of entrepreneur, and the first actions you would need to take to become one. To do a startup, you need to think very simplistically in many ways. From what I have seen working with hundreds of startup founders, it is often those that stay “hungry and foolish,” as Steve jobs put it, that are able to find a solution to a problem people have and build a business out of it. By foolish, I mean simplistic but focused thinking. the more you complicate the problem you are solving, the more unsolvable it becomes. However simplistic this infographic is, if you just do what it says, you will get what you put in.
Entrepreneurship is more about the actions you take, not the person you are. If you take action, you are ahead of the vast majority of people, who talk about entrepreneurship, but never build anything.
I hope this infographic inspires people to just do. Build. It doesn’t matter if you are an engineer or not. Anyone can make sense of WordPress. That can be your prototype. I have seen entrepreneurs who got funding even though they spoke poor English, had no degree, and no money for a business suit.
I hope you become unscared, and do a startup.

Becoming an Entrepreneur

  • Look Ahead
  • Tell People and Demo
  • Think of a Problem
  • Follow Your Passion
  • Do the Leg Work
  • Make a Prototype
  • Block the doubters

How Funding Works – Splitting The Equity Pie With Investors

A hypothetical startup will get about $15,000 from family and friends, about $200,000 from an angel investor three months later, and about $2 Million from a VC another six months later. If all goes well. See how funding works in this infographic:
First, let’s figure out why we are talking about funding as something you need to do. This is not a given. The opposite of funding is “bootstrapping,” the process of funding a startup through your own savings. There are a few companies that bootstrapped for a while until taking investment, like MailChimp and AirBnB.
If you know the basics of how funding works, skim to the end. In this article I am giving the easiest to understand explanation of the process. Let’s start with the basics.
Every time you get funding, you give up a piece of your company. The more funding you get, the more company you give up. That ‘piece of company’ is ‘equity.’ Everyone you give it to becomes a co-owner of your company.

Splitting the Pie

The basic idea behind equity is the splitting of a pie. When you start something, your pie is really small. You have a 100% of a really small, bite-size pie. When you take outside investment and your company grows, your pie becomes bigger. Your slice of the bigger pie will be bigger than your initial bite-size pie.
When Google went public, Larry and Sergey had about 15% of the pie, each. But that 15% was a small slice of a really big pie.

Funding Stages

Let’s look at how a hypothetical startup would get funding.

Idea stage

At first it is just you. You are pretty brilliant, and out of the many ideas you have had, you finally decide that this is the one. You start working on it. The moment you started working, you started creating value. That value will translate into equity later, but since you own 100% of it now, and you are the only person in your still unregistered company, you are not even thinking about equity yet.

Co-Founder Stage

 As you start to transform your idea into a physical prototype you realize that it is taking you longer (it almost always does.) You know you could really use another person’s skills. So you look for a co-founder. You find someone who is both enthusiastic and smart. You work together for a couple of days on your idea, and you see that she is adding a lot of value. So you offer them to become a co-founder. But you can’t pay her any money (and if you could, she would become an employee, not a co-founder), so you offer equity in exchange for work (sweat equity.) But how much should you give? 20% – too little? 40%? After all it is YOUR idea that even made this startup happen. But then you realize that your startup is worth practically nothing at this point, and your co-founder is taking a huge risk on it. You also realize that since she will do half of the work, she should get the same as you – 50%. Otherwise, she might be less motivated than you. A true partnership is based on respect. Respect is based on fairness. Anything less than fairness will fall apart eventually. And you want this thing to last. So you give your co-founder 50%.
Soon you realize that the two of you have been eating Ramen noodles three times a day. You need funding. You would prefer to go straight to a VC, but so far you don’t think you have enough of a working product to show, so you start looking at other options.
The Family and Friends Round: You think of putting an ad in the newspaper saying, “Startup investment opportunity.” But your lawyer friend tells you that would violate securities laws. Now you are a “private company,” and asking for money from “the public,” that is people you don’t know would be a “public solicitation,” which is illegal for private companies. So who can you take money from?
  1. Accredited investors – People who either have $1 Million in the bank or make $200,000 annually. They are the “sophisticated investors” – that is people who the government thinks are smart enough to decide whether to invest in an ultra-risky company, like yours. What if you don’t know anyone with $1 Million? You are in luck, because there is an exception – friends and family.
  2. Family and Friends – Even if your family and friends are not as rich as an investor,  you can still accept their cash. That is what you decide to do, since your co-founder has a rich uncle. You give him 5% of the company in exchange for $15,000 cash. Now you can afford room and ramen for another 6 months while building your prototype.

Registering the Company

To give uncle the 5%, you registered the company, either though an online service like LegalZoom ($400), or through a lawyer friend (0$-$2,000). You issued some common stock, gave 5% to uncle and set aside 20% for your future employees – that is the ‘option pool.’ (You did this because 1. Future investors will want an option pool;, 2. That stock is safe from you and your co-founders doing anything with it.)

The Angel Round

 With uncle’s cash in pocket and 6 months before it runs out, you realize that you need to start looking for your next funding source right now. If you run out of money, your startup dies. So you look at the options:
  1. Incubators, accelerators, and “excubators” – these places often provide cash, working space, and advisors. The cash is tight – about $25,000 (for 5 to 10% of the company.) Some advisors are better than cash, like Paul Graham at Y Combinator.
  2. Angels – in 2013 (Q1) the average angel round was $600,000 (from the HALO report). That’s the good news. The bad news is that angels were giving that money to companies that they valued at $2.5 million. So, now you have to ask if you are worth $2.5 million. How do you know? Make your best case.  Let’s say it is still early days for you, and your working prototype is not that far along. You find an angel who looks at what you have and thinks that it is worth $1 million. He agrees to invest $200,000.
Now let’s count what percentage of the company you will give to the angel. Not 20%. We have to add the ‘pre-money valuation’ (how much the company is worth before new money comes in) and the investment
$1,000,000 + $200,000=              $1,200,000  post-money valuation
(Think of it like this, first you take the money, then you give the shares. If you gave the shares before you added the angel’s investment, you would be dividing what was there before the angel joined. )
Now divide the investment by the post-money valuation $200,000/$1,200,000=1/6= 16.7%
The angel gets 16.7% of the company, or 1/6.

How Funding Works - Cutting the Pie

What about you, your co-founder and uncle? How much do you have left? All of your stakes will be diluted by 1/6. (See the infographic.)
Is dilution bad? No, because your pie is getting bigger with each investment. But, yes, dilution is bad, because you are losing control of your company. So what should you do? Take investment only when it is necessary. Only take money from people you respect. (There are other ways, like buying shares back from employees or the public, but that is further down the road.)

Venture Capital Round

Finally, you have built your first version and you have traction with users. You approach VCs. How much can VCs give you?   They invest north of $500,000. Let’s say the VC values what you have now at $4 million. Again, that is your pre-money valuation. He says he wants to invest $2 Million. The math is the same as in the angel round. The VC gets 33.3% of your company. Now it’s his company, too, though.
Your first VC round is your series A. Now you can go on to have series B,C – at some point either of the three things will happen to you. Either you will run out of funding and no one will want to invest, so you die. Or, you get enough funding to build something a bigger company wants to buy, and they acquire you. Or, you do so well that, after many rounds of funding, you decide to go public.

Why Companies Go Public?

There are two basic reasons. Technically an IPO is just another way to raise money, but this time from millions of regular people. Through an IPO a company can sell stocks on the stock market and anyone can buy them. Since anyone can buy you can likely sell a lot of stock right away rather than go to individual investors and ask them to invest. So it sounds like an easier way to get money.
There is another reason to IPO. All those people who have invested in your company so far, including you, are holding the so-called ‘restricted stock’ – basically this is stock that you can’t simply go and sell for cash. Why? Because this is stock of a company that has not been so-to-say “verified by the government,” which is what the IPO process does. Unless the government sees your IPO paperwork, you might as well be selling snake oil, for all people know. So, the government thinks it is not safe to let regular people to invest in such companies. (Of course, that automatically precludes the poor from making high-return investments. But that is another story.) The people who have invested so far want to finally convert or sell their restricted stock and get cash or unrestricted stock, which is almost as good as cash. This is a liquidity event – when what you have becomes easily convertible into cash.
There is another group of people that really want you to IPO. The investment bankers, like Goldman Sachs and Morgan Stanley, to name the most famous ones. They will give you a call and ask to be your lead underwriter – the bank that prepares your IPO paperwork and calls up wealthy clients to sell them your stock.  Why are the bankers so eager? Because they get 7% of all the money you raise in the IPO. In this infographic your startup raised $235,000,000 in the IPO – 7% of that is about $16.5 million (for two or three weeks of work for a team of 12 bankers). As you see, it is a win-win for all.

Being an Early Employee at a Startup

Last but not least, some of your “sweat equity” investors were the early employees who took stock in exchange for working at low salaries and living with the risk that your startup might fold. At the IPO it is their cash-out day.
Inspired by: How to Fund a Startup, Paul Graham

Saturday 9 August 2014

5 Signs Your Long Distance Relationship Is Worth The Extra Effort

I’m sure many many of us in long distance relationships wonder whether this is worth the investment of our time, emotions, or energy. So I have come up with a list of five things to act as a guideline to help gauge whether or not it is in fact worth it and if they are indeed a keeper (or not. Yikes).

1. Time difference has no hold on the relationship. Not that much at least.

So yes. With distance, there is almost always that added bonus of a time difference. But, the person you’re dating thinks that staying up till godforsaken hours is worth it just to hear your silly story about how you encountered a smelly man while queuing up at McDonalds. It’s day time for you. You’ve had a good rest while they’ve been up for more than 24 hours and are fighting sleep just to talk to you for a while or to see your face on Skype or FaceTime.
This might not be the smartest move on their side, but they’re going to do it anyway. Let’s not be logical and revel in how sweet it actually is. And remember not to encourage them to do this frequently. You may be the death of your significant other.

2. You’re treated right yesterday, today, tomorrow and on your birthday.

Yay! It’s your birthday but bummer, they’re not here to spend it with you. But somehow despite that, they still make sure you’re treated like you ought to be (which is to say, well) on your birthday. You get a huge bouquet of flowers, cake, and maybe even a color pencil set thrown in (for good measure). Even when it’s not your birthday, they still find ways to surprise you with gestures that leave you in no doubt that they love you.

3. The people in their everyday life know who you are.

And not in a creepy way too. This most probably means that they’re not ashamed of you and talk about you. This also most probably means that you both Skype frequently. So all is good. However if their housemates get creepy, maybe it’s time to ask them to move out.

4. They share their world with you.

Even if they’re just going grocery shopping or to Frisbee practice, you always know and you get pictures and videos of the town and city they’re in. They show you the baking utensils aisle because they know you like to bake, or shows you that cozy blanket they’re going to buy because their blanket is now better than yours.

5. They’re reachable anytime.

Not in a needy way but if you are freaking out over that test or presentation or job interview tomorrow, they are going to be there to calm you down and maybe throw in a stupid comment or two (or 10). Bottom-line is, they’re your best friend.
I’m not saying that they’re perfect if they are all this, or that they don’t make the cut if they don’t meet all the five requirements above. You would know that they’re a keeper if they are. You wouldn’t have a hard time being convinced they are so; and fighting for the relationship isn’t as grueling because they’re worth it. If you are dating a keeper, keep them and don’t ever find reasons to let go.

Friday 1 August 2014

20 Clever Inventions You Probably Didn’t Know Were Made By Indians

Indian inventions and discoveries have been instrumental in shaping the face of the current modern world. We picked up 20 such interesting findings out of a whole bunch that will make you go, “I didn’t know that”.


1. Buttons







Buttons were first used in Mohenjo-daro for ornamental purpose rather than for fastening. They were first used in the Indus Valley Civilization by 2000 BCE.

2. Chess

Chess developed out of Chaturanga, which is an ancient strategy board game developed during theGupta Empire in India around the 6th century AD. Now you know why Vishwanathan Anand is such a pro, rag rag me is tarah… ;)






3. Prefabricated home and movable structure

In 16th century Mughal India, during the reign of Akbar, the first prefabricated & movable structures were invented.





4. Ruler

Rulers were first used by the Indus Valley Civilization prior to 1500 BCE. Made of ivory, the rulers found during excavation, reveal the amazing accuracy of decimal subdivisions on it.



5. Shampoo

The word ‘Shampoo’ is derived from chāmpo (चाँपो). It was initially used as a head massage oil for the Nawabs of Bengal during the Mughal Empire around 1762. It evolved into shampoo over the years.



6. Snakes and Ladders

The game, Snakes & Ladders,  was invented in India as a game of morals. Later it spread to England and eventually introduced in the USA by game pioneer Milton Bradley in 1943.



7. Cotton cultivation (We clothed the world, yay!)

The ancient Greeks used to wear animal skins and were not even aware of cotton. But Indians were sort of cool ;) and started cultivating cotton during the 5th – 4th millennium BCE in the Indus Valley Civilization. The word spread to the Mediterranean and beyond and soon everyone was ordering one from Flipkart. Well, pretty much.

8. Fibonacci Numbers

The Fibonacci numbers were first described by Virahanka, Gopala  and Hemachandra as an outgrowth of earlier writings by Pingala.


9. Decimal System, Quadratic formula and Zero!

It was in 7th century CE when Brahmagupta found the first general formula for solving quadratic equations. The decimal system (or the Hindu number system), which was a precursor of the Arabic numeric system, was developed in India between the 1st and 6th centuries CE.

10. Suits Game

The popular game of cards originated from India & was known as Krida-patram (which literally means“painted rags for playing”).



11. Cataract Surgery

Indian physician Sushruta (6th century BCE) had the knowledge of performing cataract surgery. It spread to China from India. Greek scientists would visit India to get operations done and also to learn the nitty-gritties.


12. Diamond Mining

Worldwide, India was the only source of diamonds until the discovery of mines in Brazil in the 18th century. Almost 5000 years ago, diamonds were first recognized and mined in central India.


13. Water on Moon

ISRO’s Chandrayaan-1 made the startling discovery that our moon is not a dry ball of rocks. The discovery of lunar water is attributed to the Chandrayaan mission.


14.  Radio/Wireless communication

We all know that Marconi received a Nobel Prize in Physics in 1909 for contribution to the development of wireless telegraphy. But the first public demonstration of radio waves for communication was made by Sir Jagdish Chandra Bose in 1895, two years prior to Marconi’s similar demonstration in England.
Sir Bose was posthumously credited (more than a century later) for his achievement. The fact remains that this discovery truly shaped the face of modern wireless communication.

15. Flush Toilets

Flush toilets were first used in the Indus Valley Civilization. These existed in most homes and were connected to a sophisticated sewage mechanism. The civilization was prominent in hydraulic engineering.

16. Binary Code

Binary numbers were first described by Pingala (c. 200 BC). Pingala is the traditional name of the author of the Chandaḥśāstra, the earliest known Sanskrit treatise on prosody.


17. Ink

Many ancient cultures and civilizations independently discovered and prepared ink for writing purposes. The source of carbon pigment used in Indian Ink (called musi) used in ancient India, was India. Since 4th century BC, the practice of writing with ink with a sharp pointed needle was common in South India.

18. Steel & Metal works

Ancient Indians were pioneers in metallurgy. High quality steel was produced, almost two thousand years before it was understood by the West. One of the most remarkable feat in metallurgy: creating a seamless celestial globe, was invented in Kashmir. It was earlier considered impossible to create a metal globe without seams.
So thanks to India, Iron Man can wear his suit now.

19. Fiber Optics

Named as one of the 7 ‘Unsung Heroes’ by Fortune Magazine, Dr. Narinder Singh Kapany, is widely recognized as the ‘Father of Fiber Optics’ for his pioneering work in Fiber Optics technology. Watch him speak eloquently on his entrepreneurial journey.

20. Plastic Surgery

Yes, you heard it right. Indians were pioneers in Plastic Surgery too. It was carried out in India as early as 2000 BCE.
So, we’ve always been a cool country. ;)  History is testimony to it. So what’s stopping you from being innovative? Go, win the world.